Dear Beta

Based on a true beta I know. His social circle is his church (which goes to show you, it doesn’t matter how much Christlove a girl gets raised believing in; if you don’t make her vagina moist, you aren’t getting her love). The first draft of a letter I’d like to give him one day:

Dear Beta,

I write you this letter because I pity you. And I hate having to cringe every time I see you interact with women. There are a few things that you need to understand if you’re ever going to be happy. Right now you’re living in a world of pretty lies; it would behoove you to take what I have to say seriously. Know that as it stands, you are the butt of most of the jokes in your social circle.

Girls don’t want to be with you, and guys sure as hell don’t want to be you. But why? you might ask. You do everything right, don’t you? You’re friendly, accommodating, agreeable, sensitive, you follow the rules. You can be funny and even witty from time to time. Yet these people, no matter how religious they claim to be, don’t respect you. Is it because they’re just assholes and bitches? Nope. If your path remains unaltered, it wouldn’t matter who composed your social circle, or where it was. They still wouldn’t respect you. It’s human nature to respect the strong, and sorry, that doesn’t encompass you in any way. So time for a little self-examination. It’s your fault. You never understood women and, if perpetually left to only your own devices, never will.

Fortunately, by acknowledging your own fault in the matter comes the revelation that you have the power to fix it. And there is hope. But for that hope to come to fruition, you have to drastically change yourself. Now, I see the potential in you. You have tools to work with. Lack of shyness. Sense of humor. You certainly aren’t apprehensive about touching girls.  You just need to learn how to refine these traits into an entity known as your Best Self.

First of all, you need a fresh start. Your current social circle is toxic. Vacate the premises pronto. Find another group with whom you can still identify as far as your values go. Apply everything you are about to learn to them. You will immediately see a positive change in how you are perceived. If you insist on holding on to the soul-sucking environment you’re currently immersed in, don’t expect sudden (or even eventual) respect. You’ve lost them, son. The only way to ever get those girls to respect you is to get out of there for a significant amount of time and return a new, self-assured man, preferably with a beautiful girl on your arm months later. That’s the only way.

You need to display confidence in all that you do, say, and think. Cut the humility act for now; once you commit to this path, do so without excuse or apology. Forget what anyone has said in the past; you can become a new man, a man who radiates positive energy and charisma, a man who can get the girl chasing after him instead of the other way around. But you must believe in yourself first.

Speaking of that, stop following around your love interests like a little lost puppy. It is sickening. Learn to realize when you’ve failed. (Hint: you’ve failed with every girl in your current circle; don’t waste one more second musing over the impossibility they will suddenly decide they actually like you) Chasing after girls who obviously don’t reciprocate your interest is about the quickest way to suck the dignity right out of you. Don’t give them that power.

I suspect that you have trouble recognizing the obvious when it comes to the actions of that special someone you’re going after (or you do, and have just been lying to yourself during the arduous trek of romantic masochism you’ve put yourself through). When that girl never approaches you with excitement in her eyes as you enter a room, she’s not into you. When that girl doesn’t return your calls and texts for hours, days, or at all, she’s not into you. When that girl rejects plan after plan you craft to get together without offering any sort of alternative time or plan herself, she’s not into you. When you touch that girl and she, displaying the look of someone ready to projectile vomit, pushes herself away at the first opportunity, she’s not into you. Get the picture? When a girl is into you, you will know. You will feel it.

Obtaining love from women is a process, my beta friend. It’s not something that comes out of the ethereal mists. You can’t skip integral portions of the process and expect to get results. You’ve got to follow the rules that they have laid out. So stop praying and start playing.  To do that, you have to dedicate a relatively equal amount of time to the attraction phase, the rapport phase, and the seduction phase (in that order). Read the book I’ve enclosed with this letter. It gives the most concise explanation of the stages of pick-up of anything I’ve read.

This letter isn’t meant to give you all the answers. It’s meant to show you that there is a way out of the hell you’re living in. Game offers that hope. Believe in God too; I’m not here to tell you to abandon something that offers hope in something beyond this life. But if you spend all your days worrying about the afterlife, you’ll soon realize you forgot how to make the most out of your present life. Mastered game is the elixir to every broken heart or empty titillation you’ve ever experienced as a result of failure with females. And to master game, you must shed the false beliefs, like how some are “naturals” and some aren’t, and truly go after what you desire. You’ve always had it in you to obtain everything you’ve seen the “naturals” get your entire life, but it requires accepting a new path of enlightenment and then real-world application of those principles. The world can be yours. Take it.

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