Dear Beta

Based on a true beta I know. His social circle is his church (which goes to show you, it doesn’t matter how much Christlove a girl gets raised believing in; if you don’t make her vagina moist, you aren’t getting her love). The first draft of a letter I’d like to give him one day:

Dear Beta,

I write you this letter because I pity you. And I hate having to cringe every time I see you interact with women. There are a few things that you need to understand if you’re ever going to be happy. Right now you’re living in a world of pretty lies; it would behoove you to take what I have to say seriously. Know that as it stands, you are the butt of most of the jokes in your social circle.

Girls don’t want to be with you, and guys sure as hell don’t want to be you. But why? you might ask. You do everything right, don’t you? You’re friendly, accommodating, agreeable, sensitive, you follow the rules. You can be funny and even witty from time to time. Yet these people, no matter how religious they claim to be, don’t respect you. Is it because they’re just assholes and bitches? Nope. If your path remains unaltered, it wouldn’t matter who composed your social circle, or where it was. They still wouldn’t respect you. It’s human nature to respect the strong, and sorry, that doesn’t encompass you in any way. So time for a little self-examination. It’s your fault. You never understood women and, if perpetually left to only your own devices, never will.

Fortunately, by acknowledging your own fault in the matter comes the revelation that you have the power to fix it. And there is hope. But for that hope to come to fruition, you have to drastically change yourself. Now, I see the potential in you. You have tools to work with. Lack of shyness. Sense of humor. You certainly aren’t apprehensive about touching girls.  You just need to learn how to refine these traits into an entity known as your Best Self.

First of all, you need a fresh start. Your current social circle is toxic. Vacate the premises pronto. Find another group with whom you can still identify as far as your values go. Apply everything you are about to learn to them. You will immediately see a positive change in how you are perceived. If you insist on holding on to the soul-sucking environment you’re currently immersed in, don’t expect sudden (or even eventual) respect. You’ve lost them, son. The only way to ever get those girls to respect you is to get out of there for a significant amount of time and return a new, self-assured man, preferably with a beautiful girl on your arm months later. That’s the only way.

You need to display confidence in all that you do, say, and think. Cut the humility act for now; once you commit to this path, do so without excuse or apology. Forget what anyone has said in the past; you can become a new man, a man who radiates positive energy and charisma, a man who can get the girl chasing after him instead of the other way around. But you must believe in yourself first.

Speaking of that, stop following around your love interests like a little lost puppy. It is sickening. Learn to realize when you’ve failed. (Hint: you’ve failed with every girl in your current circle; don’t waste one more second musing over the impossibility they will suddenly decide they actually like you) Chasing after girls who obviously don’t reciprocate your interest is about the quickest way to suck the dignity right out of you. Don’t give them that power.

I suspect that you have trouble recognizing the obvious when it comes to the actions of that special someone you’re going after (or you do, and have just been lying to yourself during the arduous trek of romantic masochism you’ve put yourself through). When that girl never approaches you with excitement in her eyes as you enter a room, she’s not into you. When that girl doesn’t return your calls and texts for hours, days, or at all, she’s not into you. When that girl rejects plan after plan you craft to get together without offering any sort of alternative time or plan herself, she’s not into you. When you touch that girl and she, displaying the look of someone ready to projectile vomit, pushes herself away at the first opportunity, she’s not into you. Get the picture? When a girl is into you, you will know. You will feel it.

Obtaining love from women is a process, my beta friend. It’s not something that comes out of the ethereal mists. You can’t skip integral portions of the process and expect to get results. You’ve got to follow the rules that they have laid out. So stop praying and start playing.  To do that, you have to dedicate a relatively equal amount of time to the attraction phase, the rapport phase, and the seduction phase (in that order). Read the book I’ve enclosed with this letter. It gives the most concise explanation of the stages of pick-up of anything I’ve read.

This letter isn’t meant to give you all the answers. It’s meant to show you that there is a way out of the hell you’re living in. Game offers that hope. Believe in God too; I’m not here to tell you to abandon something that offers hope in something beyond this life. But if you spend all your days worrying about the afterlife, you’ll soon realize you forgot how to make the most out of your present life. Mastered game is the elixir to every broken heart or empty titillation you’ve ever experienced as a result of failure with females. And to master game, you must shed the false beliefs, like how some are “naturals” and some aren’t, and truly go after what you desire. You’ve always had it in you to obtain everything you’ve seen the “naturals” get your entire life, but it requires accepting a new path of enlightenment and then real-world application of those principles. The world can be yours. Take it.

Genda Equality

Have you heard of OGFurious? Well, it’s about time you did. This video is my personal favorite among a great selection of his random hilarity- “5 things Women Hate about Guys.” He is obviously familiar with the world of PUAs (he’s posted some kooky-yet-uber-confident pick-up videos), which is an added bonus. And while his videos are certainly satirical, it’s fun to see the truths he peppers into them. Enjoy.

“It’s Not Our Faults We’re Pretty”

So I was texting an ex-fling the other day (I’m not sure why I still talk to this girl, mostly because her naive mindset amuses me). A little background on our little princess: According to my source (her), she has given blow jobs to 20-30 guys. She has had sex with at least 10 guys, probably closer to 20. Now she’s back with her boyfriend whom she cheated on (slutting it up with at least 3 other guys) about a year ago. This information is all shit she’s voluntarily shared with me, no coercion necessary.

Oh, and these impressive stats are all a reflection of a girl who just turned 20. So in other words, she’s a slut. Sweet girl, but a slut. No getting around it.

Our little conversation started as the result of an old man she works with at a nursing home propositioning to have sex with her. Now, the guy is probably suffering from Alzheimer’s or lung cancer or 40 years of sexless solitude, but whatever the case, she found it to be the perfect chance to springboard into an “I hate guys” rant. Among the things she texted me (followed by my commentary after each statement):

Guys are pigs. Us girls have to put up with it the rest of our lives.

Well, at least until you turn 35 or so. As for your current situation, you poor thing. Being attractive to the opposite sex must be pure torture. Tell ya what, try living your first 25 years on this earth as a clueless (and near sexless) beta getting friend zoned by women en masse and tell me how that feels.

When she’s 50, she’ll probably begin to understand.

Girls can’t rape guys. Unless they use Viagra. Girls can be mean but so can anyone. But I’ve never heard any guy complain because he didn’t want sex.

I’ve read this back to myself multiple times and it still makes little sense to me. Trying to be funny with the Viagra statement I see. But I’ll analyze it as far as I can anyway.

Sure, girls can’t rape (though it has happened), but they can cuckold, lead along, use men at their leisure, and falsely accuse of rape. In this feminist utopia we’re currently enjoying, a girl can basically destroy a man’s soul and be considered by the masses an egalitarian hero.

And complain about no sex? As opposed to what? Should he complain that he doesn’t want sex? Should he not complain that he does want sex? Oh female “logic.”

Girls don’t thing about sex all the time or are always trying to get into guys pants.

Hahahahahahaha… A classic case of projection. For someone trashing the vice of getting into people’s pants, she sure has a lot of experience doing it. Her legs open faster than the door at Walmart on Black Friday.

Psht easy? You crazy mister. I wish we could trade places one day. You can see how hard it is really.

How hard it must be to walk into a room and watch every guy drool over you, and then, ultimately, you have your pick of the litter. Talk to me when you’re in an aspiring alpha male’s position, having to shed all your natural, friendzoney attributes, fundamentally changing your interaction style and then having to do the right things in the right order just to give yourself a chance at getting laid. You can “psht” me all day long, but I’m right. You as a an attractive 20-year old female… have…it…easy. (I’m talking about receiving sex that is, not necessarily receiving love.)

As Roissy said, “Failing to get laid is not how women are rejected; they are rejected when they don’t receive romance, love, and long term commitment from the men who fuck them. Most women under 25 with a slim and healthy 17-23 BMI profile have no trouble getting laid from the men they find attractive. Given that most young women can get sex fairly easily, falling into bed with a man, even high status men, is not much of an accomplishment.”

If we traded places i’d totally get you laid.

If you put in the work learning and applying game like I have, then sure. But if you expect to just show up and find it magically happen (like with the scores of men who have performed sexual acts with you), you’ve got another thing coming, sista.

Girls like guys they are attracted to. Not bad boys and such. That’s awful that you say that. And you wonder why girls use guys. It’s not our faults we are pretty.

For clarification, she was reacting to a shocking and completely unjustifiable (yeah, right) statement I made about how girls like bad boys.

And as far as what she wrote here, is this representative of all girls’ mindsets? Are they all this delusional when it comes to their own natures? I’m beginning to think so. To accuse someone who points out a truth obvious to anyone who opens their eyes for two seconds of being “awful” is complete and utter blindness.

And how ’bout we turn those last two sentences around on you and see how you feel about it: “And you wonder why guys use girls. It’s not our faults we are charismatic.” Did I cross a line there, darling?

The most shocking thing about this statement is that it comes from a girl who generally exhibits a very sweet and innocent demeanor. I know her true nature, but she really is as friendly of a girl as you’re going to meet. Yet she still harbors such disturbing untruths. Obviously having great looks and a nice personality doesn’t shield girls from believing their own bullshit.

I don’t usually like to have full-on conversations with people via text, but I could tell this would be golden from the start. If I was trying to game this girl, this dialogue would have never taken place. But since I wasn’t, and since I have a blog, I figured I’d allow her to elaborate. Her words confirm to me the game principle of not taking girls too seriously. Doing so (with a girl you’re pursuing or not) will drain the life out of you quicker than a knife to the brachial artery. I treat her inanity seriously on this blog however to show that… bitches… you crazy!